The only thing worse than a 30-year-old single woman is a 30-year-old divorced woman.
- Charlotte sex and the city

I am one year closer to lose my gamble with Hui that whether I will manage to get marry before I turn 30, and now I am encountering the mid-20 cirsis.

I asked a friend who just turned 30:"are you the person you wanted to or you thought you would be when you turned 30?" I have to ask the same question to myself. "am i the person i wanted to be or thought i would be when i turned 25". it's a hard question.
I don't really had a clear picture of my 25th before. I am still in school, this is not what I expected. But I have a job now, in an environmental protection NGO, Sort of "start my career". that's what I want. I am still dependent on my parents financially, that's not what i wanted. i am with sb seriously, that's good and bad.

if i need to grade myself being 25, i might just get a B. It's average, it's acceptable, and it's improvable.

Now i need to picutre what i want myself to be when i turned 26, for long term turned 30. Changing is faster than planning, especially in such a fast-pace society. But it's always good to know where I am heading to and have a clear picture of what i want.

As in the first day of my 25-year-old. it's a good timing to make plan for my future.

The only thing worse than a lost 25-year-old woman is a lost 25-year-old woman without a plan.